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We’ve all heard that women in the workforce make only 75 cents for every dollar earned by men. This factoid, long a rallying cry for women’s rights activists, may be trumped by a statistic uncovered by new research out of Stanford’s sociology department: in the college hookup scene, men are having orgasms at two and a half times the rate of their female partners.

“The orgasm gap is worse than the sex gap in pay,” says Sociology Prof. Paula England, who teaches the popular class “Sex and Love in Modern Society.”

England conducted an extensive online sex survey of over 4000 undergraduates at Stanford, the University of Arizona, Indiana University, UC-Santa Barbara and SUNY-Stony Brook. When male and female college students hook up, she found, 44 percent of men orgasm — compared to only 19 percent of their female partners.

What’s behind the orgasm gap?

In the survey, students reported on their last hookup — anything from kissing to oral and manual sex to intercourse. The three kinds of activities were about equally likely. But when it came to purely oral sex — about 16 percent of the time — women were much more likely to dish it out than receive it.

Read the rest of this article at The Stanford Daily.

Nerve.com’s Pickup Line Encyclopedia, Pickupedia, features quips and quotes on subjects from Arousal to Virginity.

Here are a few samples from their collections.

"I must be a pirate cuz I’m loving your booty."
Nice shoes… fancy a fuck?
"What winks and screws like a tiger?" pause… 😉 wink.
"You must be a parking ticket… Cuz, you have FINE written all over you"
"If you were a sliding door I’d slam you all night long."
"Excuse me, does this smell like chloroform to you?"
"You are the most interesting piece of ass I’ve talked to all evening."
"Let’s be like Nike, and just do it!"
"I’m really wired. What do you say I take you home and eat your pussy?"
"Are you from Jamaica? Cause Jamaican me crazy!"
"Are you wearing Jalepeno undies, ’cause your ass is hot."
"If you were a McDonald’s Value meal they would call you McBeautiful."
"Hersheys makes thousands of kisses a day, all I’m asking for is just one."
"If I call your left leg Thanksgiving and your right leg Christmas, can I visit between the holidays?"
"Did you shower in Windex? Because I can see myself in you."
 "Hi, stranger, do you have any candy? Can I ride in your car?" (Said to me by an acquaintance whom I hadn’t seen in a while.)

The Brattleboro Selectboard took one more step toward approving an ordinance that would prohibit nudity in the Vermont town’s public areas when it asked the town manager to prepare a draft ordinance for its first reading at its next meeting on Nov. 20. The board also agreed to add language to a town zoning regulation closing a loophole that would have allowed some businesses to have naked employees.

Selectboard Vice Chairman Dick DeGray said all members of the board had made compromises to make an anti-nudity ordinance acceptable. The board’s decision to compromise on the ordinance is a good sign, said DeGray. Coming to such an agreement "is something we have rarely done since we’ve been elected," he said.

For his part, he said, he agreed to not pursue making nudity a criminal offense and would instead support keeping it a civil infraction punishable with a ticket. Hopefully, he said, making it a civil infraction will end nudity on Brattleboro’s streets. "I don’t want to see people getting arrested, but I don’t want to see people abusing the town," said DeGray.

Read the full story at the Brattleboro Reformer website.

It’s not everyday you get to see a Winona Ryder nude scene, in fact, it’s pretty much never, seeing as how Winona Ryder really never does nude scenes.

But that’s all changed now. Winona’s in a new movie called Sex and Death 101 (yeah, I never heard of it either), in which she actually appears nude.

Now, in the scene itself, you’d be hard-pressed to catch any actually nakedness, since things move kind of quick, but there are a distinct four or five frames of pure Winona Ryder nakedness. And thanks to the miracle that is the freeze-frame, you can now enjoy those frames forever and ever.

Click these links to see the rest of the pics: Winona 1 – Winona 2 – Winona 3 – Winona 4

No one has nailed down the origin of the acronym MILF ("Mom I’d Like to Fuck"), although American Pie is credited with popularizing the term, which is most closely associated with teenage boys lusting for a friend’s hot mom. In the past several years, the adult industry has grabbed onto the phenomenon, and MILF porn has become a viable niche. 

On the Adult Video News bestselling DVD chart for October 2007, there are 13 MILF movies, including It’s a Mommy Thing; Wife, Mother, Whore; and I Scored a Soccer Mom 2. They make up less than 15 percent of the titles listed, but in such a crowded field, that is significant. In fact, AVN.com now devotes an entire monthly sales chart just to MILF titles. (Currently in the no. 16 slot is my favorite title: You’ve Got a Mother Thing Coming.)

Although Wikipedia defines "MILF" as a descriptor for women ages 35 to 50, in porno land, women cast as MILFs can be as young as 25. After all, once you’ve reached that age, you’re usually on your way to being kicked to the curb by an industry obsessed with the Barely Legal set. Because of a demand for MILF porn, though, older performers are getting more work than ever before. (Some are first entering the biz at 35 and older.) The plots may be predictable and the dialogue cheesy, but it’s a refreshing change to see women with sexual confidence and maturity on-screen.

At 48, Nina Hartley has made over 650 movies in her 28 years in porn. She says that after five years in the business, the amount of scenes she shot declined (typical for a female performer)—but when she hit 40, there was a serious drop-off. However, in the past three years, she’s seen a dramatic spike in her workload, primarily thanks to the rise of MILFs. "I am happy to be part of this new demographic," she says. "I have the opportunity to show that older women are sexy, and we are not giving up our sex lives." She believes that a good part of the MILF appeal isn’t new: "Being taught by someone who knows what she is doing—the older-woman-as-sex-teacher—has always been a classic theme in porno. It just never had a name."

–read the full article by Tristan Taormino here.

Actress Angelina Jolie has told her husband Brad Pitt, that her digital nude scenes in Beowulf are more realistic and exposing than she first imagined.

Angelina Jolie has warned partner Brad Pitt about the level of nudity in her new computer-animated movie Beowulf.

The Hollywood beauty was so shocked by how “real” the animation looked, she said she felt “exposed” after seeing herself naked.

Angelina said: “I was really surprised that I felt exposed. There are certain moments where I actually felt shy – and called home, just to explain that the fun movie I had done that was a digital animation was, in fact, a little different than we expected. “I didn’t expect ourselves to come out as much. I didn’t expect it to feel as real, so it was kind of funny at first.”

Angelina, who was pregnant with her daughter Shiloh when she worked on Beowulf, admits her baby bump caused some problems for the animators.

She told People magazine: “I was three months pregnant for some of it. You wouldn’t know though. We did the mapping of my body before and they worked wonders. It was a pleasure.” The film sees Angelina play a temptress killer lizard, painted gold and sporting a tail, and Angelina admits: “I really did love my tail.”

Beowulf, directed by Robert Zemeckis and starring British actor Ray Winston, is due to hit cinemas later this month.

A dentist accused of fondling the breasts of 27 female patients in California is trying to keep his dental license by arguing that chest massages are an appropriate procedure in certain cases.

Mark Anderson’s lawyer said that dental journals discuss the need to massage the pectoral muscles to treat a common jaw problem. Police say Anderson said during recorded phone calls that he routinely massaged patients’ chests to treat TMJ, or temporo-mandibular joint disorder, which causes neck and head pain.

Anderson’s dental license was suspended last month. He was charged with two misdemeanor counts of battery and sexual battery. Prosecutors are investigating complaints from more than two dozen women who say they also were groped in the examining chair in the last five years.

According to court papers, one woman said Anderson first asked her if she’d had her breasts enlarged. When she said yes, she said he began fondling them with both hands. She said he told her, “They did a good job. You can’t even feel the bags.”

Here’s a photo of the dentist who did the alleged groping and fondling so you can see for yourself who these women were allowing to handle their breasts. By the way, another of the complaints is from a 31-year-old woman who said Anderson fondled her at least six times over two years. She said she took to wearing tight shirts with high necklines, “and Anderson would still get in under her shirt and bra,” according to a police report.

Okay, maybe it’s just me, but why would you think that wearing tight shirts would make someone ignore your breasts? And why would someone go back six times to get fondled if they didn’t want the attention?